Saturday, April 16, 2011

Reading: Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy (pgs. 241-280)

In the next section of Dungy's book, Quiet Strength, I found more truths from his book through his difficult experiences as he describes in his book.  In chapter eighteen, Dungy describes an unforgettable season he had coaching the Indianapolis Colts in 2005.  The team started out hot and ran their record to 13-0 before finishing 14-2.  The team had a dominating presence on the field as they beat opponents easily and set several records in their season as a team.  Sadly, Dungy experienced the death of his son, Jamie, during the same season.  He was shocked to hear the result of his son taking his own life.  Everyone in Dungy's family along with their friends were devastated.  Dungy describes the funeral ceremony in great detail with a large crowd around him.  Many people were there who were positively impacted by Jamie in their lives.  Dungy described all of the positive aspects of Jamie at the service.  He also gave advice to all the parents at the service to treasure the moments with their children and love them always.  Although the 2005 football season ended in an early playoff exit, Dungy will always remember all of the accomplishments and struggles during the season that made him a stronger individual.

In chapter nineteen, Dungy details the Colts magical 2006 regular season.  They won a lot of games, but by closer margins than their season the previous year.  In addition, they struggled mightily during the final stretch of the regular season.  Dungy knew their new philosophies would payoff though.  They managed to win the final game of the season and snag a number three seed for the playoffs.  The Colts won their first two games in the playoffs with a rejuvenated defense.  In addition, they had the the luxury of playing the New England Patriots, their nemesis, at home for the AFC championship.  Dungy describes at the end of the chapter how it was fitting to play the Patriots, their rivals, to have a chance to go to the Super Bowl.

 After reading this section of Dungy's book, I cannot help but feel for Dungy after learning about the death of his son.  I believe any death of a child would be difficult, but a child committing suicide has to be more disturbing.  However, I admire Dungy's attitude and outlook on the situation.  He knew his child was in heaven due to his faith and he did not dwell on the fact he took his own life.  Dungy was extremely optimistic on what he actually gained in the sadness.  I want to have the same attitude as Dungy in this somber portion of life.  Despite the terrible emotions that come along with hardship, I must rest assured that God has a purpose in all things.  He will use struggles to build me and mold me.  In addition, I will one day reunite with my father God in heaven.  I look forward to reading the conclusion of Quiet Strength.

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